Amen, if you haven’t walked in there shoes or lived their life, don’t judge. Pray! If you do not understand, don’t have an attitude with them, you don’t know what steps God has chosen for them to walk through. And all that you haven’t done or experienced, you never know, your children or grandchildren might.
Don’t judge. Pray! Pray for compassion to be able to show the love of God, which will bring them into the Kingdom of God.